Kibr: Pride
Al-Ghazali describes it as the swelling that needs someone else standing lower. A person feels taller for the company they keep, and the lift lasts only while another gets ranked underneath. Nothing is gained by it, since the height comes from pressing someone down in your own mind.
Faqr: Poverty before God
Sufis use the word for owning nothing of your own. Quick understanding, a good teacher, an early start, all of it was handed to a person rather than earned. Once that sinks in, the urge to rank yourself loses its footing, since nobody can take credit for a gift.
Adab: Good manners
The old teachers said the whole path comes down to manners. Among people who share a teaching, that shows up as letting someone finish and not correcting them just to win. Keeping a teacher's name out of your arguments belongs to the same restraint, and the arguing runs out of fuel.
Our knowledge stays tied to the Book and the Prophet's example: nothing gets added on top
Junayd, an early master in Baghdad, held his students to that line. Add-ons are where superiority usually breeds, since a person who has gone past the plain teaching starts feeling like an insider. With nothing added, no one has a private ladder to climb, and everybody is standing on the same floor.
Bury yourself in the ground of obscurity: hidden growth is what lasts
Ibn Ata Allah wrote that for people itching to be seen. A person others look up to can let the admiration pile up, and that feeds pride on both sides at once. Stepping out of the light stops the supply, and the whole rivalry quietly runs out of air.