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1 Corinthians 7:27 · World English Bible

1 Corinthians 7:27 Meaning Are You Bound to a Wife

Are you bound to a wife? Don’t seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don’t seek a wife.

What does 1 Corinthians 7:27 mean?

The mind is a machine for wanting the other side. Whoever is married dreams of freedom, whoever is free dreams of a companion, and the dreaming has nothing to do with the wife or the solitude; it is the mind's way of avoiding the situation that is actually here.

From the Indian Guru reading below.

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The mind is a machine for wanting the other side. Whoever is married dreams of freedom, whoever is free dreams of a companion, and the dreaming has nothing to do with the wife or the solitude; it is the mind's way of avoiding the situation that is actually here.

Change the arrangement and the discontent travels along and settles into the new one within months. This is not counsel to endure. The movement toward elsewhere is itself the misery. Stay where life has placed you, drop the search for a better situation, and something quiet becomes available in exactly the place you were trying to escape.

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Live 1 Corinthians 7:27 today

  1. When you catch yourself picturing a different life today, a different job, a different apartment, a different person across the table, stay with the picture for a second and then come back to the room you are actually in. Look at one real thing in it.
  2. With someone close to you, drop the quiet comparison for one conversation. No measuring them against who they were five years ago or against someone else's partner on a screen, just the person in front of you tonight.
  3. Next time you are stuck, in traffic, in a grocery line, on hold, watch the urge to be somewhere else rise up. Let it be there without acting on it, and feel how the stuckness loosens on its own.

What would today feel like if I stopped waiting for it to be replaced?

The same truth in other traditions

Tao Te Ching 46

There is no greater misfortune than not knowing when you already have enough. The wanting itself is the poverty, not the circumstance.

Buddhism · the Second Noble Truth

Suffering is born of craving, the endless reaching for a state other than this one. The reaching is the wound, and it follows you into every new arrangement.

Stoicism · Seneca

You travel to change your mood and arrive with the same restless self you packed. A change of place cures nothing while the mind that wanted the change comes along.

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