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1 John 3:11 · World English Bible

1 John 3:11 Meaning For This Is the Message Which You

For this is the message which you heard from the beginning, that we should love one another;

What does 1 John 3:11 mean?

Dhammassavana: Hearing the teaching Hearing the teaching is a condition placed at the very start of the path. A message heard from the beginning is the same on the hundredth hearing as on the first, like a house rule learned in childhood that still runs the grown household.

From the Buddhism reading below.

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Dhammassavana: Hearing the teaching Hearing the teaching is a condition placed at the very start of the path. A message heard from the beginning is the same on the hundredth hearing as on the first, like a house rule learned in childhood that still runs the grown household. Returning to it is the work, since the instruction was never hard to understand, only easy to let slip. Being told again what you already know is part of the instruction.

Mettā: Loving kindness Mettā is the wish for another's welfare, trained like any skill. Loving one another sets a direction for the heart rather than reporting a feeling that visits, which is why it can be asked of people at all. It goes first to the person in the next chair, and only then out to everyone. Warmth toward humanity in general that sours at the neighbor has not begun yet.

Avyāpāda: Freedom from ill will Avyāpāda is intention with the ill will taken out of it. Cain, a few lines further on, kept a grudge warm against his brother long before he raised his hand in the field. Setting such a grudge down is the first half of loving one another, since goodwill finds no room in a mind still holding its case. Hatred toward a brother is the same substance as the killing, only earlier.

Kalyāṇamittatā: Good friendship Good friendship is companionship in practice, which the Buddha called the whole of the holy life. One another runs in both directions: each person keeps the message alive for the other, the way two walkers on one road keep each other from wandering off it. Since the love is mutual, nobody in the room is only a giver. Loving the people in front of you is the shape the path takes.

Dhammānudhammappaṭipatti: Practice in line with the teaching This is the step that follows hearing, doing what was heard. "We should love one another" turns an old familiar message into something owed today, to one difficult person with a name. A teaching kept in memory alone is a recipe read and never cooked. Whoever has heard it longest is the most likely to assume it has already been done.

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Live 1 John 3:11 today

  1. Read or hear something today you already know by heart, and resist the move of skipping ahead because it is familiar. Being told again is part of how it sticks.
  2. Choose one difficult person with an actual name and do one plain kind thing for them today: answer their email first, make them coffee, let them finish their sentence. One person, not people in general.
  3. When the pressure rises and you want to be the one who is right, let the other person keep their dignity instead. You can hold your position and still not take anything from them.

What do you know so well that you have quietly stopped doing it?

The same truth in other traditions

Judaism · Hillel

Asked for the whole teaching while standing on one foot, Hillel said do not do to another what you would hate done to you. The rest, he said, is commentary, and the commentary is meant to be studied.

Confucius · Analects

He said he was not inventing anything, only passing along what was handed to him, and that the point of learning something is to practice it until it becomes how you behave.

Stoicism · Seneca

Seneca argued that familiar precepts still need repeating, because people do not fail for want of knowing but for want of being reminded at the moment it counts.

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