1 Kings 19:14 · World English Bible
He said, “I have been very jealous for Yahweh, the God of Armies; for the children of Israel have forsaken your covenant, thrown down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword. I, even I only, am left; and they seek my life, to take it away.”
A man will repeat his grievance word for word, even after he is asked directly what is wrong, because the grievance has become the organizing principle of his identity. He has rehearsed the injustice so often that it plays back unchanged.
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A man will repeat his grievance word for word, even after he is asked directly what is wrong, because the grievance has become the organizing principle of his identity. He has rehearsed the injustice so often that it plays back unchanged. The repetition is the symptom. Nothing has moved in him between the first telling and the second.
He was asked a gentle, open question, an invitation to say what he needed. He answered with the same catalog of betrayals. When suffering hardens into a script, ask whether you are describing your circumstance or defending it. Grief that refuses to be interrupted has quietly become a home.
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Am I describing what happened to me, or protecting it?
Turning the hurt over and over keeps it alive. Those who put the story down find the pain loosens its hold.
It is not what happens to you but the account you keep repeating about it. Change the telling and the weight changes with it.
Meet this moment with a beginner's mind. Suzuki says the expert, sure of what he already knows, has no room left for anything new to reach him.
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