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1 Peter 4:1 · World English Bible

1 Peter 4:1 Meaning Therefore

Therefore, since Christ suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind; for he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin,

What does 1 Peter 4:1 mean?

To suffer in the flesh means to face pain consciously, instead of fleeing it. Much of what gets called wrongdoing is really flight.

From the Psychoanalysis reading below.

1 Peter 4:1 through 2 lenses

The same verse, read by 2 traditions.

PSYCHOANALYSIS

Psychoanalysis

To suffer in the flesh means to face pain consciously, instead of fleeing it. Much of what gets called wrongdoing is really flight. A man keeps drinking, or returning to a love that ruins him, because he cannot bear the plain ache underneath.

The one who stops running, who lets the suffering reach him and stays with it, feels the old compulsion loosen. He ceases from sin because the wrong was only ever a way to avoid that pain. Once the pain is faced, the reason for it is gone, and the behavior falls away on its own.

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BUDDHISM

Buddhism

Buddhānussati: Recollection of the Teacher A steadying practice: calling to mind the one who went first. Christ suffered in the flesh before any of this is asked of the reader, and holding that fact in view is itself the arming, since courage comes from someone already ahead on the same path. Soldiers in a hard fight look up at their banner and steady themselves, and remembering a teacher who has already been through the pain works the same way.

Adhiṭṭhāna: Resolve The mind fixed on a course before the hard part arrives. Arming yourself with the same mind means the decision gets made in advance, so that when the flesh is struck the question of whether to hold is already answered. The Bodhisatta sat down beneath the tree having settled that he would not rise until the work was finished, and that settled decision was his armor.

Khanti: Patient endurance The capacity to bear painful bodily feeling without striking back at it. Suffering in the flesh is borne here rather than dodged, and the bearing is the point: the pain is allowed to be what it is and to run its course. A patient holds still while the doctor sets a broken bone, because flinching would only drag it out.

Vedanā: Feeling Bare sensation, pleasant, painful, or neither. Being struck in the flesh is one arrow; grabbing for comfort, or for resentment, or for the old habits that made the pain stop before, is the second arrow, and the second one is where sin enters. Whoever takes the first without adding the second is left carrying only what the body gave.

Pahāna: Abandoning Letting go of the unwholesome once it has been seen through. Ceasing from sin arrives here as a consequence of what the flesh has been through, not as some further campaign of effort, because the pain has burned off the appetite that was driving the wrongdoing. A fever breaks, and the hunger for rich food goes with it.

Psychoanalysis lens

Live 1 Peter 4:1 today

  1. When you reach for your phone out of discomfort today, pause and name the feeling you were about to skip. Just name it, then do what you want with the phone.
  2. Instead of filling a hard silence with someone, let it sit for a few seconds. Most of our chatter is flight from a small ache.
  3. At the end of a rough day, skip the usual numbing routine once. Sit with the tiredness and the frustration for ten minutes before anything else.

What small pain have you been working so hard to stay ahead of?

The same truth in other traditions

Buddhism · Second Arrow

The first arrow is the pain itself. The second is everything we do to escape it, and that one we fire at ourselves.

Stoicism · Seneca

We suffer more from fleeing pain than from the pain. What is faced squarely turns out smaller than the shadow it cast.

Sufism · Rumi

Sit with the grief instead of running. It is clearing you out for something, and running only keeps it at the door.

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