The man who ends a standoff is almost always the one asking a different question than everyone else in the line.
Asking how to survive a threat sends the mind looking for cover, and a mind that finds only cover settles into dread, and dread is what keeps an army standing in formation for forty days. A question about what ending it is worth sends that same mind hunting for an opening.
The living God is inside the question itself, which is why it returns a different answer. A primary question carried for years in empty fields had built its answer long before the giant existed, and a mind holding that answer does not stop to consult the odds. Keep the question the line is asking and a person spends their life standing ready at the edge of a fight someone else finally settles.