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1 Samuel 25:37 · World English Bible

1 Samuel 25:37 Meaning In the Morning

In the morning, when the wine had gone out of Nabal, his wife told him these things, and his heart died within him, and he became as a stone.

What does 1 Samuel 25:37 mean?

When the numbing wore off and he saw plainly what had happened, his heart died within him and he became as a stone. This is what the mind does when it cannot accept the moment it is given.

From the Ego v. Being reading below.

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When the numbing wore off and he saw plainly what had happened, his heart died within him and he became as a stone. This is what the mind does when it cannot accept the moment it is given. It does not open. It hardens, closes around its shock, and turns rigid as rock.

A man wholly identified with what he owns has no inner space left to meet reality. So reality arrives and finds nothing in him willing to yield. Because he could not accept what was, his heart had nowhere to open, and so it closed and grew cold as stone.

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Live 1 Samuel 25:37 today

  1. Think of the one loss you keep clenching around, money, a job, a thing someone said. Say to yourself, this happened, and let your shoulders and jaw come down while you say it.
  2. When someone brings you news you did not want today, try to stay soft in your face and your voice for the first ten seconds. The softness is not agreement, it just keeps a door open.
  3. Next time a plan falls apart at work, say out loud, alright, this is what we have now. Then ask what the next small step is instead of defending the plan that is already gone.

Where in your life are you being hard because being soft feels too dangerous?

The same truth in other traditions

Tao Te Ching 76

The living are soft and yielding, the dead are stiff and hard. Whatever hardens has already begun to break.

Buddhism

Clinging is what turns loss into suffering. Grip a thing tightly enough and when it goes, your hand cannot open again.

Stoicism · Epictetus

Call nothing yours that can be taken, your house, your money, your reputation. You hold them the way you hold a borrowed thing, and then nothing can crush you when it is asked back.

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