ʿUjb: Self-admiration
Al-Ghazali counts self-admiration among the faults that quietly ruin decent people. Someone pleased with their own record stops asking whether the work was any good and starts gathering reasons they were right. Each bit of praise they hand themselves shuts a door they could have walked through. They end up guarding a picture of themselves instead of doing anything further.
Whoever knows himself knows his Lord: self-knowledge opens onto something larger
Ibn Arabi comes back to this old saying more than to any other. Someone who measures themselves against the people beside them learns nothing, since the ruler and the measured thing are the same size. Held up against something without limit, their size shows at once. Knowing where you stand takes a mark you did not draw yourself.
Ḥijāb: The veil
In the Niche of Lights, al-Ghazali describes what stands between a person and the light, and self-regard is the thickest of it. Someone busy admiring themselves cannot see past themselves, so every question about them arrives already answered in their favor. They are not lying about it. From the inside, this blindness feels exactly like confidence.
Muḥāsaba: Settling accounts with yourself
Al-Ghazali describes going over your own day the way a shopkeeper checks the books. The habit works because the standard comes from outside the crowd you run with, so a group can no longer grade itself generously. Someone doing this stops asking how they rank and starts asking what they owe. Ranking against the neighbors quietly loses its grip.
Ikhlāṣ: Sincerity
Sincerity, for al-Ghazali, means the act is done for one witness and nobody else. A person working that way has nothing riding on the scoreboard, since the credit was handed over before the work began. The pull to line yourself up next to others fades once your standing is not the point of what you are doing. Someone like that can hear another person praised without needing to answer it.