When fear of looking naive picks the meaning, a leader will start a war to avoid feeling foolish.
A meaning handed over by advisors gets adopted for what it lets a man avoid feeling. Warning makes a young king feel shrewd; comfort makes him feel handled, a boy propped on his father's throne. He moves away from that second feeling, suspicion becomes the state he receives the envoys in, and contempt becomes the only action available inside it.
Two rulers could take delivery of the identical kindness and live in different worlds, one gaining an ally for a generation, the other buying a war. The sample was thin enough to carry either reading, and the one that won was the one that protected him from feeling young. The people under him pay for that model with their lives.