There is great freedom in being able to say, I am not the one you think I am. The ego is always trying to be someone, to claim a role, to be recognized as special. To release that claim is not weakness. It is awakening.
When you no longer need to be the center, you can point beyond yourself to something far greater than any personal identity. The one who comes after, whose sandals you feel unworthy to loosen, is not merely another person. It is the presence, the awareness, deeper than the small self you have taken yourself to be. When you stop needing to be the one, you no longer stand in the way, and what is deepest in life can finally come through.