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Ephesians 2:3 · World English Bible

Ephesians 2:3 Meaning We Also All Once Lived Among Them

We also all once lived among them in the lusts of our flesh, doing the desires of the flesh and of the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.

What does Ephesians 2:3 mean?

Kāmataṇhā: Craving for sense pleasure Kāmataṇhā is the thirst that runs after whatever the senses offer. Living in the lusts of the flesh is living as thirst lives, drinking salt water and wanting more of it.

From the Buddhism reading below.

Ephesians 2:3 through 2 lenses

The same verse, read by 2 traditions.

BUDDHISM

Buddhism

Kāmataṇhā: Craving for sense pleasure Kāmataṇhā is the thirst that runs after whatever the senses offer. Living in the lusts of the flesh is living as thirst lives, drinking salt water and wanting more of it. Flesh here points less at the body itself than at the pull moving through it, so the walls of that old life were built out of wanting.

Saḷāyatana: The six sense bases Saḷāyatana counts the mind as a sixth sense standing alongside eye, ear, nose, tongue, and body. Desires of the flesh and of the mind belong together for that reason: thoughts, plans, and grudges arrive at their own door the way sights and sounds arrive at theirs. A house with six open doors is not made safe by locking five.

Kamma: Action that bears fruit Kamma is intended action together with the result it carries. Doing the desires is the hinge of the whole sentence, since the wanting turned into deeds, and deeds wear a path the way footsteps wear a trail across a lawn. Children of wrath then reads as heirs, people who came into possession of exactly what their own doing had built.

Anusaya: Latent tendencies Anusaya are the dispositions that lie dormant in a person until conditions wake them. By nature reaches down to that layer, where ill will waits with nothing showing on the surface until someone cuts in front of us. Seeds in dry ground look like plain dirt right up until the rain comes.

Puthujjana: One of the many folk Puthujjana names the ordinary person, not yet awakened. Even as the rest levels the ground and puts the one writing inside the same crowd as everyone being written to. When a crowd is all leaning one direction, the leaning stops feeling like a choice and starts feeling like nature, which is the quiet claim this whole account is undoing.

SUFISM

Sufism

Ghafla: Heedlessness Ghafla names the fog of not paying attention to what one is doing. Years spent inside it rarely feel wrong at the time, since everyone nearby is moving the same way and nothing stands out as strange. Once the fog lifts, a person can finally see the shape of those years, though nothing in them has changed.

Nafs al-ammāra: The self that commands toward harm The Quran names a self inside a person that pushes them toward what damages them. It never arrives feeling like an enemy; it feels like ordinary wanting, like just being yourself, which is why it goes unchallenged for years. Having a name for it gives a person something definite to look at, instead of a blurry sense of being bad.

He has taken his own craving as his god: wanting ends up giving the orders A line from the Quran puts it that bluntly, and it is not exaggeration. The mind rarely stays neutral once an appetite has chosen; it starts building the case for whatever was already wanted. So the wanting sets the direction and the thinking follows behind it, while a person spends years believing they decided.

Muḥāsaba: Taking account of yourself Al-Ghazali treated an honest reckoning with oneself as daily work. The hard part is describing what one did without sliding into the softer version, or quietly leaving oneself out of the count. A person who does it properly ends up on the same list as everybody else, which takes the superiority out of the telling.

My mercy outruns my wrath: mercy has the longer reach The tradition passes this down as God's own words. Someone looking squarely at an old life can decide the account is already closed against them, and that the damage settled the question of what they are. Mercy arriving first, before any improvement on their part, means the past stops working as a verdict.

Buddhism lens

Live Ephesians 2:3 today

  1. Watch one craving today without acting on it, the reach for the phone, the second helping, the thing in your cart. Just let it sit there for sixty seconds and see what it actually does.
  2. The next time someone irritates you, catch the flare before the reply goes out. That heat was already in you before they arrived, so it is yours to handle, not theirs.
  3. When you are tired and the pressure is on, that is when the old pull is strongest. Name it to yourself plainly, "this is the tired talking," and decide one notch more slowly than usual.

What habit in you feels like simply who you are, rather than something you learned?

The same truth in other traditions

Stoicism · Epictetus

Epictetus said we are dragged around by our impressions, mistaking the pull of an appetite for a decision we made. Freedom starts the moment you can see the pull as a pull.

Hinduism · Bhagavad Gita

Krishna warns that brooding on an object breeds attachment, attachment breeds craving, and craving breeds anger. The chain runs on its own unless someone watches the first link.

Judaism · the rabbis on the yetzer hara

The sages taught that each person carries an inclination toward harm that is part of being human, not a stranger's voice. You do not banish it, you learn to steer it.

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