A person who refuses to put down an idol has already decided what answer God is allowed to give.
What a person will not release writes the question they ask, and the question tells the mind where to look, so the answer arrives wearing the shape of the wanting and gets called guidance. A primary question asked for years builds a life around its own answer; ask how to keep the idol and be blessed anyway, and every counsel gets filtered until it agrees.
God answering according to the multitude of the idols is exactness, not cruelty: the heart that came asking sets the terms of the reply. Change what the question protects and the same God gives a different answer, because the mind is finally sent looking somewhere else. The cost of leaving it is years of sincere seeking that deepen the very thing a person came to be freed from.