Judgment on your ways is the kindest arrangement available, because ways are the one thing you can change today.
Being weighed by ways rather than by intentions is the most workable arrangement a person could be handed, because intention cannot be altered on command and conduct can. Yahweh puts the leverage where a hand can reach it.
Turning is a decision executed at the action link, and held long enough it runs backward up the chain: changed conduct retrains the state, and the state stops issuing the emotion that made the old conduct obvious. Iniquity ruins by continuing rather than by being remembered, which is why the stopping is the whole requirement. Every month spent considering it is a month the old ways go on collecting.