Genesis 32:20 · World English Bible
You shall say, ‘Not only that, but behold, your servant, Jacob, is behind us.’ ” For, he said, “I will appease him with the present that goes before me, and afterward I will see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.
A guilty mind tries to buy the peace that is already given. Believing the brother must be paid before he can be faced, it sends gifts ahead to soften a wrath that exists only in its own imagining.
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A guilty mind tries to buy the peace that is already given. Believing the brother must be paid before he can be faced, it sends gifts ahead to soften a wrath that exists only in its own imagining. This is the bargain the ego always proposes, that love has a price and acceptance must be earned. Yet the brother needs no appeasing, for he was never angry; the offering placates no one but the fear inside the one who sends it.
The face such a mind is afraid to see holds nothing but welcome. When it finally looks, it will find it was already accepted, and every gift was spent to purchase what was free.
Servant: the humbled self the mind presents when it believes it must earn the right to be received The present: the offering sent to buy a peace already given, the bribe fear pays to a wrath that was never there His face: the brother's true expression, feared as anger yet holding only the welcome the mind expects to be denied
Christian Psychology lens
Who am I still trying to earn acceptance from when it may have been given to me a long time ago?
The one who grasps for favor loses it. What is freely given cannot be bought, and trying to buy it insults the giver.
Goodwill is not a transaction. You do not owe anyone anything for being met with kindness, and you cannot pay for it either.
You knock at the door you have already been let through. Stop negotiating and look up.
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