Attack always arrives disguised as innocent report. The brothers do not confess; they present the stained gift as something merely found, and ask the father to draw the fearful conclusion himself. This is projection perfected. The mind that has done the harm hands the evidence to the one it would wound and steps back, so the grief seems to rise on its own, unauthored, a fact of the world rather than a choice of the heart.
The question they ask is the ego's favorite invitation, to look at a sign and believe in a loss. A mind can accept that invitation and mourn, or it can decline to conclude that love has ended on the strength of a bloodied cloth.
Coat of many colours: the emblem of love the mind offers back defaced, as evidence that the beloved is gone
Father: the mind invited to look at a staged sign and conclude, on its own, that loss is real