Be in this world as a stranger or a traveler passing through: nothing here was yours to keep
The Prophet described every person as someone in transit. A long life spent unsettled, always moving on before anything took root, can feel like a life that never properly started. Set beside that saying, the rootlessness stops looking like a failure, since a traveler was never going to have a house to show for the trip.
Muḥāsaba: Taking honest account of yourself
Al-Ghazali describes sitting down and adding up your own record without softening the total. Old age brings that reckoning whether a person invites it or not, and the sum that comes back is often smaller than expected. Speaking the plain figure out loud, hardship included, settles someone more than talking around it, because the strain of keeping up appearances drops away.
The most tested people are the prophets, then those most like them: hardship is not a mark of being overlooked
A saying of the Prophet ranks trouble the opposite of how it feels from inside. Someone whose years came out heavy on difficulty and light on ease can quietly conclude they were passed over. Reading the hard stretches as attention rather than neglect makes them no lighter, but it removes the second weight, the suspicion of having been forgotten.
Riḍā: Being at peace with the portion you were handed
Sufis use this for accepting your own allotment without arguing over the size of it. Measuring your life against people who seemed to get more years and gentler ones leaves a low, permanent grievance that never quite resolves. Peace arrives when someone stops treating another person's share as the mark their own was supposed to hit.
The Sufi is the child of the moment: today is the only stretch in hand
Sufis repeat this line about belonging to the day you are standing in. A long backward look can pull a person completely into finished years and into lives that were never theirs to live. The time still coming may be short, but it remains the only part anyone can still move around in, and attention rests more easily there.