Renaming the worst ground in a life is not denial; it decides what that history is allowed to build.
The meaning assigned to a place of trouble sets the state a person carries back into it, and the state decides whether they return as a defendant or as someone able to respond. Held as evidence against her, ruin produces shame, shame withdraws, and withdrawal compounds into a life kept out of reach of what is offered.
The second name holds because God gives it, not the one who suffered there; a person cannot argue their way to hope from inside the same mind that filed the verdict. Refusing it costs every vineyard that would have grown on ground kept sealed.