Ḥubb al-jāh: Love of status
Al-Ghazali treated the hunger for status as one of the hardest faults to spot in yourself. It grows quietly in people who have worked hard and served well, and it arrives dressed as fairness: after all this, something should come to me. Seeing the wanting for what it is takes some of its weight off a tired person.
Ikhlāṣ: Sincerity
Sincerity means the work is done for God alone. Long service can quietly grow a second motive underneath it, the hope that serving will make you someone, and that hope aches when nothing comes. With the second motive gone, the work still counts for everything it was, and no one is in your debt.
Bury yourself in the ground of obscurity: hidden years make the fruit
Ibn Ata Allah put it in terms of seeds, which need time under the soil before anything worth eating appears. Being passed over feels like being wasted, and it stings most when you have earned better and everyone can see you did not get it. The hidden stretch is where a person gets made, so the years nobody watched are not lost.
Riḍā: Contentment with what you are given
Contentment means taking the portion that arrives rather than the one you pictured. When everything around you is coming apart, what you get to keep can look painfully small next to what you thought you were building. Contentment stops the constant measuring against that picture, and being alive and able to walk becomes enough to stand on.
Tawakkul: Trust that God carries you
Trust hands the outcome to God and keeps walking. When the road ahead is bare and unsettled, a person leans on something other than plans, because the plans are gone. Trust puts the weight on the one who gives the days, not on the shape of the days, and an unknown road becomes walkable.