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Jeremiah 9:8 · World English Bible

Jeremiah 9:8 Meaning Their Tongue Is a Deadly Arrow

Their tongue is a deadly arrow. It speaks deceit. One speaks peaceably to his neighbor with his mouth, but in his heart, he waits to ambush him.

What does Jeremiah 9:8 mean?

The most dangerous betrayal wears the face of friendship. A man smiles at his neighbor, speaks warmly, offers every appearance of goodwill, while inside he sets the trap that will spring the moment his neighbor turns his back.

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The most dangerous betrayal wears the face of friendship. A man smiles at his neighbor, speaks warmly, offers every appearance of goodwill, while inside he sets the trap that will spring the moment his neighbor turns his back. The words are the bait. The intention is the arrow already loosed.

The split between what people say and what they mean corrodes a whole society. Trust becomes impossible when the pleasant voice conceals the hidden knife. Watch what a person does over time, not what he tells you. The heart eventually shows itself in action.

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Live Jeremiah 9:8 today

  1. Before you send the agreeable reply, check what you actually feel about the person's request. If the smile in your message is covering resentment, write a truer sentence instead, even a plainer one.
  2. Judge someone today by their pattern rather than their last nice text. Think over the past year, not the past hour, and let what they repeatedly do carry more weight than what they say.
  3. In the tense meeting, say the hard part to the person's face rather than afterward to someone else. If you cannot say it to them, you probably should not be saying it at all.

Is there anyone you are warm to in person and cold about behind their back?

The same truth in other traditions

Confucius · Analects

He said the fine words and pleasing manner of the flatterer are rarely matched by real feeling behind them. Warmth without substance is a technique, not a friendship.

Tao Te Ching 38

When inner virtue thins out, elaborate courtesy rushes in to cover the gap. The more polished the manner, the more worth asking what it stands in for.

Sufism · Rumi

He wrote that we are all hiding behind a face we have assembled, and the work of a lifetime is letting the real one show. Pleasant speech over a hidden motive is the mask at its most convincing.

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