Everything keeps going against them until the proud heart is at last humbled and accepts what has come. This is the turning point of all suffering. As long as the ego resists, insisting that this should not be happening, the pain only deepens and the land of the enemy holds them fast.
There comes a moment when the resistance breaks and the heart bows, no longer at war with the reality it is in. To accept what has happened is not to call it good. It is to stop struggling against what is already so. And in that surrender, and only there, the long punishment begins to end.