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Luke 14:12 · World English Bible

Luke 14:12 Meaning He Also Said to the One

He also said to the one who had invited him, “When you make a dinner or a supper, don’t call your friends, nor your brothers, nor your kinsmen, nor rich neighbors, or perhaps they might also return the favor, and pay you back.

What does Luke 14:12 mean?

The mind that gives only where return is likely has not given at all; it has traded. The ego arranges all its love as an exchange, calling to itself those who can pay it back, because it believes that love is scarce and must be recovered wherever it is spent.

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The mind that gives only where return is likely has not given at all; it has traded. The ego arranges all its love as an exchange, calling to itself those who can pay it back, because it believes that love is scarce and must be recovered wherever it is spent. Such giving leaves the giver exactly where he was, richer by nothing.

True giving looks past the circle of those who can repay and offers itself where no return is possible, and in that it discovers that giving and having are one. A mind that expects no recompense has already been given everything, for it has learned that love increases only by being released without a ledger.

Dinner or supper: the offering the mind extends to others, the giving it lays out that can be either a bargain or a gift Friends, brethren, kinsmen, rich neighbours: the circle of those who can repay, the safe exchange the ego keeps so that nothing is truly given away

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Live Luke 14:12 today

  1. Do one useful thing today that nobody will find out about. Pick up the thing in the hallway, pay the small difference, fix the typo in the shared doc, and leave your name off it.
  2. Reach out to the person in your contacts who has nothing to offer you, the one who never reciprocates and never will. Text them anyway and mean it.
  3. When you help someone this week and the thank you does not come, watch the small flare of resentment and let it go unpaid. That flare is the invoice you were secretly writing.

What have I been giving while quietly keeping score?

The same truth in other traditions

Bhagavad Gita 17

The purest giving is given to one who can return nothing, at the right time, without thought of what comes back. Giving that calculates is a transaction wearing a kind face.

Tao Te Ching 81

The wise give and do not contend, and are not diminished by it. What is released multiplies, and what is hoarded quietly shrinks.

Judaism · Maimonides

Among the highest rungs of charity is the gift where the giver does not know who receives and the receiver does not know who gave. Nothing can be collected on a gift nobody can trace.

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