Most bad decisions are made from a short list, and the list is what deserves the questioning.
Behaviour gets chosen off a menu, and the menu is written in advance by beliefs about what a man can bear. Two honest options are struck out in one breath, one by a belief about his body and one by a belief about his standing, and once significance is ruled non-negotiable the only options still standing are clever.
Digging costs strength and begging costs face; the second cost is the one running him, because significance is a need of the personality that will spend other people's money to stay intact. What deserves auditing is the pair of lines crossed off before the decision. A man who cannot be seen low has committed himself to schemes in advance, and the schemes cost him the very name that shame was guarding.