The father asking for honor is your own awareness of being, the I AM at the center of you from which every condition is born. To honor it is to guard what you attach to it, because whatever you join to those two words comes to pass. The complaint here is that people revere the sense of self and then feed it their smallest fears.
The despising is unconscious. A person says he believes in his own power, then all day tells himself he is poor, unwanted, stuck. That is the dishonor, and he cannot even see he is doing it. He asks how he has failed while failing in the very sentence. Awareness gives itself to whatever follows it. The name is honored when a person keeps company only with the states he would consent to become.