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Mark 5:35 · World English Bible

Mark 5:35 Meaning While He Was Still Speaking

While he was still speaking, people came from the synagogue ruler’s house saying, “Your daughter is dead. Why bother the Teacher any more?”

What does Mark 5:35 mean?

People will hand someone their limits in the shape of kindness and call it sparing them trouble. Most limiting beliefs arrive in another person's voice, offered as consideration.

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People will hand someone their limits in the shape of kindness and call it sparing them trouble.

Most limiting beliefs arrive in another person's voice, offered as consideration. A fact gets delivered together with a conclusion about the fact, and the conclusion is the part nobody examined. Death is the strongest reference any human owns; stack it and certainty follows, certainty sets the state, and the state writes the sentence that ends the effort before the effort is made.

Jesus speaks to the father's fear rather than to the news, because fear was the only thing that could have turned that fence into fact for the father who heard it. A man already walking toward help is one sentence from turning around, and turning around always sounds reasonable. What this costs shows up as requests withdrawn: a person hears a final verdict from people who mean well and stops asking for what is still available.

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Live Mark 5:35 today

  1. Next time someone gives you news, write down the fact on one line and the conclusion they added on another, then decide for yourself whether the second line is true.
  2. When you are about to spare someone trouble, do not bother, it is too late, he is busy, check whether you are protecting them or quietly closing a door for them.
  3. When the kind voice says there is no point in asking, ask anyway. Most doors get closed by people who meant well, not by anyone who actually said no.

Whose reasonable advice has you no longer asking for something that might still be available?

The same truth in other traditions

Stoicism · Epictetus

The event and your judgment of the event are two separate things. People usually hand you both at once and only one of them is a fact.

Buddhism

The first arrow is what happened. The second is the story told about it, and the second is the one that does most of the harm.

Zen

The finger pointing at the moon is not the moon. Take the information and leave the conclusion attached to it.

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