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Matthew 15:4 · World English Bible

Matthew 15:4 Meaning For God Commanded

For God commanded, ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘He who speaks evil of father or mother, let him be put to death.’

What does Matthew 15:4 mean?

To honor your parents is to accept that you did not build the world you woke up in. Someone sacrificed so that you could stand where you stand, and to curse that inheritance is to declare war on the very ground beneath your feet.

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To honor your parents is to accept that you did not build the world you woke up in. Someone sacrificed so that you could stand where you stand, and to curse that inheritance is to declare war on the very ground beneath your feet. The severity of the ancient penalty measures how much a society depends on this.

A culture that teaches its young to despise what came before them is a culture cutting its own roots. Gratitude toward those who raised us is the first act by which a person becomes fit to be trusted with anything at all. Everything else grows from that soil.

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Live Matthew 15:4 today

  1. Think of one thing you use without thinking, your language, a skill, a habit of kindness, and name who gave it to you. Then say thank you for it, out loud or in a note, even if they will never read it.
  2. Call a parent or an older relative and ask them about something from before you were born. Listening to the story is the honoring, more than any gift you could send.
  3. When you catch yourself in the easy complaint about how your family did things, hold off on the second sentence. Say one true thing about what it cost them instead, even if only to yourself.

What do you stand on today that someone else paid for?

The same truth in other traditions

Confucius · Analects

Filial respect is called the root of character. Confucius taught that a person who honors the ones who raised them has the ground on which every other virtue can stand.

Judaism · Pirkei Avot

Who is wise? The one who learns from everyone. The sages passed down teaching by naming who they received it from, so that no one could pretend the wisdom started with himself.

Stoicism · Marcus Aurelius

Marcus opens his private notebook by listing what he owes each person who formed him, his grandfather, his teachers, his mother. He begins with the debt, not with himself.

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