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Ibtilāʾ: Being tested The Quran asks whether people thought they could say they believe and never be tested. Testing means a moment that puts a price on something you said you wanted, and the answer comes out of you before you can shape it. Someone can be sure of where their heart stands for years, and then one request settles the matter in a minute.

Ḥubb al-dunyā: Love of the world Al-Ghazali calls this the pull that reaches the heart before anything else does. Owning things does no harm by itself; the harm starts when your sense of being safe is built out of them. A request to give one up then meets a refusal that arrives before any reason, and the refusal shows where you had been resting.

Ṣidq: Truthfulness all the way through Sufi teachers use this for the match between what you say you want and what you will do. Wanting the highest thing costs nothing while it stays in words; the gap opens when the wanting has to move your hands, your time, and your plans. Someone can ask the question honestly and still find they are not ready for what the answer asks back.

Faqr: Poverty before God The Quran tells people plainly that they are the poor ones and God is the rich one. Everything you own arrived from somewhere and will leave again, and nobody keeps their health, their people, or their years. Once that settles in, holding on hard starts to feel strange, because you were guarding something that was only ever on loan to you.

Zuhd: Holding the world loosely Al-Ghazali places the whole of this inside the heart rather than in what you own. One person can give everything away and still ache for it, and another can keep what they need without leaning on it. The loosening begins as a drop in what you expect a thing to do for you, and the hands follow later.