Yes, you will drink the cup. The suffering that transforms comes to everyone who walks this way, and it will do its work in you. But the place of honor you imagine is not something one person hands to another, and it is not won by wanting it more strongly than the next.
Such a place is prepared by the source of life itself, and given to those who have been made ready, which means emptied of the very self that grasps for position. As long as you are still reaching for it, you are not yet the one for whom it is prepared. Only when that grasping self dissolves does the honor arrive, given freely because no ego remains to claim it.