The one who first refused and then went is the mind that admits its resistance and turns anyway, while the one whose lips agreed and whose feet stayed still is the mind hiding behind correct appearances. Heaven is not entered by the polished self-image that never questions itself, but by the part willing to see where it went wrong.
The despised go in first because they carry no pretense of innocence to defend, and so they have less to unlearn. What blocks the doorway is not the wrong but the certainty of being right, which leaves nothing open to correction.
Two sons: two responses in one mind, the resistant part that later yields and the agreeable part that never moves.
Father: the Source whose one desire is that the mind return to love.