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Matthew 8:12 · World English Bible

Matthew 8:12 Meaning But the Children of the Kingdom Will

but the children of the Kingdom will be thrown out into the outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

What does Matthew 8:12 mean?

Belonging by inheritance is the sneakiest form of pride. A person who claims the kingdom as a birthright confuses an outward title with the real, inner thing, and when the moment of truth comes, he finds himself outside.

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PSYCHOANALYSIS

Psychoanalysis

Belonging by inheritance is the sneakiest form of pride. A person who claims the kingdom as a birthright confuses an outward title with the real, inner thing, and when the moment of truth comes, he finds himself outside. Outer darkness names the state of someone who refused to let the kingdom become inward and real.

The centurion, a soldier in an occupying army, carries more of God within him than those who hold it by birth, precisely because he shows up with no sense of entitlement. Where something in us longs to join the opposites and grow, the entitled person refuses. The weeping and grinding of teeth is the pain of finding, at a locked gate, that the key was always on the inside.

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Live Matthew 8:12 today

  1. Find one place you have been coasting on a label, the experienced one, the good one, the reliable one, and do the actual work today instead of resting on the name.
  2. Stop assuming your longest relationship is fine because it is long. Ask your partner or your friend or your parent the real question tonight, the one earned closeness lets you skip.
  3. When you catch yourself thinking you deserve better treatment than the person next to you, in the line, the inbox, the comment thread, let the thought go and treat them as an equal. Entitlement is the locked side of the door.

Where am I claiming something by right that I have never actually let inside?

The same truth in other traditions

Zen

The gate has no lock. People stand outside it for years because they assume someone else has to open it.

Stoicism · Epictetus

No title makes a person good. What you inherit sits outside you, and only what you actually do reaches inside.

Tao Te Ching 38

The one who parades his virtue has already lost it. Claiming the thing is how you let go of it.

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