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Proverbs 15:5 · World English Bible

Proverbs 15:5 Meaning A Fool Despises His Father’s Correction

A fool despises his father’s correction, but he who heeds reproof shows prudence.

What does Proverbs 15:5 mean?

Correction feels like an attack only to the part of the mind that has mistaken its defenses for itself. To despise instruction is to guard the separation, clinging to being right rather than being free.

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Correction feels like an attack only to the part of the mind that has mistaken its defenses for itself. To despise instruction is to guard the separation, clinging to being right rather than being free. The ego calls this strength, but it is only fear refusing the help that would release it.

The mind that can receive reproof without flinching has begun to trust it is not being accused, only guided home. What corrects it is not a rival but a wiser voice within, wanting nothing except its peace. To listen is to let love undo a mistake the mind was tired of defending.

Father: the loving teacher within the mind, the wiser voice whose correction restores rather than condemns.

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Live Proverbs 15:5 today

  1. Think of the last piece of criticism you brushed off. Sit with it for two minutes today and ask what part of it was fair, with nobody watching you admit it.
  2. When someone you trust says the hard thing, resist explaining yourself for a full ten seconds. Ask a question instead of making your case.
  3. In a meeting or a disagreement where you can feel yourself digging in, say out loud that you might be wrong about this. It loosens everything in the room, including you.

What have I been defending lately that I am honestly tired of carrying?

The same truth in other traditions

Stoicism · Epictetus

If someone tells you your faults, do not argue. Thank them, and look at whether it is true, because a defended mistake stays a mistake.

Confucian tradition · Mencius

Zilu was pleased whenever someone pointed out a fault in him. Gladness at correction is learning, and bristling at it is only guarding.

Buddhism · Dhammapada

Treat the one who shows you your error as someone showing you buried treasure. Keep that person close, you are better for it.

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