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Proverbs 20:25 · World English Bible

Proverbs 20:25 Meaning It Is a Snare to a Man

It is a snare to a man to make a rash dedication, then later to consider his vows.

What does Proverbs 20:25 mean?

The mind sets its own trap when it seizes what is holy for the ego's uses and only afterward asks what it has done. To grab first and question later is the pattern of fear, which acts on its guilt and then goes looking for a way out of the consequences it made.

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The mind sets its own trap when it seizes what is holy for the ego's uses and only afterward asks what it has done. To grab first and question later is the pattern of fear, which acts on its guilt and then goes looking for a way out of the consequences it made. The holy cannot be devoured or possessed; it can only be received by a mind willing to be still.

A mind caught this way is not condemned. The snare was never real, and the moment it stops swallowing and starts listening, it walks free of a cage it built from its own haste.

Man: the mind grasping at the sacred for the ego's ends, the hungry self that consumes first and looks for meaning only when the trap has closed. Snare: the self-made trap of guilt, the loop in which a mind acts on fear and then hunts for escape from what it never had to do.

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Live Proverbs 20:25 today

  1. When you feel the urge to grab something right now, a purchase, a reply, a decision, set a timer for ten minutes and let the urge speak without acting on it.
  2. Before you say yes to someone's request, say you will come back to them in an hour. A real yes an hour later is worth more than a fast one you will quietly resent.
  3. When a message lands that makes your chest tighten, put the phone face down and do one ordinary thing first. Answer after, not during.

What have I grabbed lately that I would have handled better by waiting?

The same truth in other traditions

Buddhism

Grasping is the root of suffering. What we snatch at turns to ash in the hand, while what we receive quietly stays.

Tao Te Ching

The sage acts without seizing, and so nothing is lost. Hurry breaks the very thing it reaches for.

Stoicism · Seneca

We make promises in haste and then spend our strength looking for a way out of them. Deciding slowly spares you the whole frantic search.

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