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Proverbs 23:29 · World English Bible

Proverbs 23:29 Meaning Who Has Woe

Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?

What does Proverbs 23:29 mean?

All the misery a mind can suffer traces to a single source, and the questions ask the mind to look for it. Woe, quarrel, and confusion are not sent from outside; they gather around a mind that keeps drinking from one particular cup.

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The same verse, read by 2 traditions.

CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGY

Christian Psychology

All the misery a mind can suffer traces to a single source, and the questions ask the mind to look for it. Woe, quarrel, and confusion are not sent from outside; they gather around a mind that keeps drinking from one particular cup. The wounds have no real cause because nothing outside inflicted them: they are the marks left by a mind attacking itself and calling the pain an accident.

The eyes are red because the mind has been looking through fear so long it can barely see. Every complaint on the list is one symptom of the same choice, and one change of teacher answers them all.

Wounds without cause: injuries the mind believes came from outside but that arise only from its own attack thoughts Redness of eyes: perception inflamed by fear, sight worn down by looking through the ego so long

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BUDDHISM

Buddhism

Dukkha: Suffering Dukkha covers pain of every grade, from an ache to a ruined life. Woe, sorrow, strife, complaints, bruises, red eyes: six troubles that look unrelated yet arrive at the same door, in the same person, on the same morning. Listing them apart is what makes their single source obvious.

Taṇhā: Craving Taṇhā is thirst, the pull toward one more. Whoever answers to all six questions wanted a cup, and only a cup; the strife and the bruises came attached to it, unrequested and included. Thirst is specific about what it asks for and silent about what it brings along.

Surāmeraya-majja-pamādaṭṭhāna: Drink as a basis for heedlessness The fifth training rule names fermented drink a basis for heedlessness, and the harm sits in that word basis. Drink loosens the watchfulness that would have kept you out of the argument and off the floor, and everything on the list walks in through that opening. Attention is the thing being protected, and these six are what it was protecting against.

Sampajañña: Clear comprehension Sampajañña is knowing what you are doing while you are doing it. Needless bruises are bruises nobody was present for: the body collected them while attention was elsewhere, so no one can say where they came from. You can lose a whole evening this way and still wake up owning every mark on your arms.

Kamma-vipāka: The ripening of action Kamma-vipāka is the fruit an action grows on its own. Bloodshot eyes were not sent by an enemy; they are last night arriving on schedule, the way a bill arrives after the purchase. Strife and complaints ripen on the same timetable, which is why these marks can be read backward to their cause.

Ādīnava: The drawback inside a pleasure Ādīnava is the downside of an enjoyment, held steadily in view. Wine's appeal needs no listing to a son who has already tasted it, so a father supplies the missing half, six questions long, and lets the full picture stand. Holding both halves together loosens the grip better than a warning does.

Christian Psychology lens

Live Proverbs 23:29 today

  1. When you feel the familiar heaviness come over you today, ask once where it actually started rather than who to blame for it.
  2. The next time you are about to vent to someone about the same complaint you always vent about, say it once and then ask them what their day was like.
  3. In traffic or a slow line, catch the mood you are building and set it down. The cars are not doing it to you.

What do I keep going back to that always leaves me feeling worse?

The same truth in other traditions

Dhammapada 1

Everything we suffer begins in thought. The misery follows the mind the way a shadow follows a walker.

Stoicism · Epictetus

We are not upset by what happens but by what we tell ourselves about it. So look at the telling.

Buddhism · Second Arrow

The first arrow is what happened. The second arrow is what we do to ourselves about it, and only the second one is optional.

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