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Proverbs 25:23 · World English Bible

Proverbs 25:23 Meaning The North Wind Produces Rain

The north wind produces rain; so a backbiting tongue brings an angry face.

What does Proverbs 25:23 mean?

The mind that will not receive an accusation gives it nowhere to land, and so the slander falls away for lack of a place to settle. This is not the anger of counterattack but the steadiness of a mind that declines to believe the guilt being offered to it, whether about another or about itself.

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The mind that will not receive an accusation gives it nowhere to land, and so the slander falls away for lack of a place to settle. This is not the anger of counterattack but the steadiness of a mind that declines to believe the guilt being offered to it, whether about another or about itself.

Every hidden accusation depends on a listener willing to entertain it, and a mind rooted in innocence is not that soil. To refuse the whispered charge is to keep the dream of separation from spreading, for guilt cannot travel where no one agrees to carry it. The clearing that follows is simply what remains when the mind stops giving fear a home.

The north wind: the mind's steady refusal to receive an accusation, which drives the charge away by giving it no place to land. Rain: the slander and hidden guilt that fall where a willing listener receives them, and disperse where none will.

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Live Proverbs 25:23 today

  1. When a cutting line someone said to you starts replaying on your walk, stop repeating it. Each time it returns, set it down instead of arguing with it.
  2. If someone starts a sentence with "don't tell anyone, but," change the subject kindly. You do not have to lecture them, just decline to carry it.
  3. Under pressure, when a story about someone's motives is handed to you as fact, ask one plain question instead of agreeing. "Do we actually know that?" is enough.

What accusation have I been quietly agreeing to carry, about someone else or about myself?

The same truth in other traditions

Buddhism · Akkosa Sutta

When a man came to abuse him, the Buddha asked whether a gift refused by the guest still belongs to the host. What is not accepted stays with the one who offered it.

Stoicism · Epictetus

It is not what people say that harms you but your agreement that it is harmful. Withhold the agreement and the words pass through.

Judaism · Talmud

Slander needs ears as much as a mouth. Refuse to be the soil and the seed has nowhere to grow.

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