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Proverbs 30:10 · World English Bible

Proverbs 30:10 Meaning Don’t Slander a Servant to His Master

Don’t slander a servant to his master, lest he curse you, and you be held guilty.

What does Proverbs 30:10 mean?

To carry an accusation from one mind to another is to teach fear, and the teacher of fear is always taught first. A mind that runs to point at what another has done believes it can lay its own guilt on a stranger and walk away clean, yet the finger it lifts turns inward, and the charge it makes becomes the charge it feels.

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To carry an accusation from one mind to another is to teach fear, and the teacher of fear is always taught first. A mind that runs to point at what another has done believes it can lay its own guilt on a stranger and walk away clean, yet the finger it lifts turns inward, and the charge it makes becomes the charge it feels. The harm it dreads from the one it named is only its own guilt returning by the shortest road.

There is another way to stand between two people. A mind can carry innocence instead of a complaint, refusing to see a fault worth reporting and so keeping none for itself. What it withholds from the servant it keeps from its own account, and finding no one guilty, it is found guiltless too.

Servant: the part of the mind seen as lowly and at fault, the brother the ego marks as the easy place to set down its guilt Master: the higher authority the mind appeals to, the judge it hopes will confirm its verdict and carry the blame away

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Live Proverbs 30:10 today

  1. When you catch yourself drafting the message that would get someone in trouble, put the phone down and sit with it for ten minutes. Most of the time the urge was never about justice, and the quiet tells you so.
  2. If a coworker or friend starts telling you what someone else did wrong, listen kindly but do not add your piece and do not carry it forward. Let the story stop with you.
  3. In a tense meeting where a mistake needs naming, name the problem and not the person. Say what needs fixing, leave out who deserves the blame, and watch the room breathe differently.

Who am I still quietly building a case against, and what would it cost me to drop it?

The same truth in other traditions

Tao Te Ching 79

The sage keeps his own side of the account and does not go after other people for theirs. Blame handed around only multiplies, while the one who refuses to pass it along ends up carrying none.

Buddhism · Dhammapada

Speech that wounds another returns to the speaker like fine dust thrown against the wind. The one who hunts for faults in others finds his own mind filling with them.

Stoicism · Marcus Aurelius

When someone wrongs you, ask what idea of good and bad led them there, and the urge to accuse dissolves into understanding. You are not harmed by their act, only by your own judgment of it.

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