Proverbs 6:35 · World English Bible
Proverbs 6:35 Meaning He Won’t Regard Any Ransom
He won’t regard any ransom, neither will he rest content, though you give many gifts.
What does Proverbs 6:35 mean?
A mind set on vengeance cannot be bought off, because what it truly wants is not payment but the guilt it has decided another must carry. The ego refuses every ransom, since accepting one would end the grievance it feeds on, and it prefers a lasting enemy to a settled peace.
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A mind set on vengeance cannot be bought off, because what it truly wants is not payment but the guilt it has decided another must carry. The ego refuses every ransom, since accepting one would end the grievance it feeds on, and it prefers a lasting enemy to a settled peace. No gift can satisfy it, for it is not really seeking anything the world can hand over; it is defending its own unhealed sense of loss.
Contentment was never for sale. The only thing that quiets a mind bent on revenge is the recognition that nothing was ever taken, and then it has no debt to collect, no grievance to guard, and no need of the gifts it once thought would appease it.
Ransom: the payment the ego refuses because it wants a lasting grievance more than peace, the offered settlement it will not accept Gifts: the outward offerings the world hands over to appease a mind that is really defending its own belief in loss
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Live Proverbs 6:35 today
- Think of someone whose apology you are still waiting for and decide today that you will be fine whether or not it ever comes. The waiting was the heavy part.
- When someone tries to make something right, a sorry, a favor, a coffee, accept it simply and let the matter close rather than keeping it open for later use.
- In a tense conversation, resist the urge to make the other person admit they were wrong before you move on. Moving on first is allowed.
What am I still trying to collect, and what would it cost me to stop?
The same truth in other traditions
Buddhism · the Dhammapada
Those who nurse the thought of being wronged will never be at peace, however the account is settled. Peace comes from laying the thought down, not from collecting.
Stoicism · Epictetus
He taught that we are disturbed not by what happens but by our view of it, so no apology can fix what our own judgment is holding in place. The settlement has to happen inside.
Tao Te Ching 79
The wise hold the left half of the contract and never go collecting. They let the debt go rather than live as creditors.
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