Whatever you keep obeying is already your master, and no one obeys something for long without becoming it.
Every act of compliance casts a vote for who is in charge, and the votes accumulate into ownership. Each yielding deepens the belief that this is simply what a person does under pressure, the belief sets the state, the state supplies the emotion on cue, and the next yielding costs less than the one before it until nothing is being chosen.
No unowned position is on offer, only two accounts, and every action deposits into one. The end is implied by the deposits long before it arrives, death on one side and righteousness on the other. What drifting costs is the stretch of time when the habit was still light enough to walk out of.