A label that was once true about your life is the most dangerous one to keep answering to.
God hands out the new terms while the ruins are still standing, because the condition follows the naming rather than the other way around. Forsaken described something real, and that accuracy is what let it harden into an identity instead of passing as a season; a people who define themselves as abandoned read every delay as confirmation, feel what abandoned people feel, and move like nobody is coming.
Delight is the source of the new term, which grounds the identity in someone else's commitment rather than in the evidence available on a given morning, and that is why it holds while the land still looks the same. Stay consistent with Desolate and rebuilding feels absurd before it is attempted, so it is never attempted, and the ground goes on proving the old word right.