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Matthew 25:12 · World English Bible

Matthew 25:12 Meaning But He Answered

But he answered, ‘Most certainly I tell you, I don’t know you.’

What does Matthew 25:12 mean?

To be unknown by the inner bridegroom is to stand outside one's own awakened awareness, having spent the oil of attention on outer things and arrived without light. The door that shuts is not a punishment from above but the plain fact that a consciousness which never trimmed its lamp cannot recognize, and cannot be recognized by, the higher self it slept through.

From the Esoteric reading below.

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To be unknown by the inner bridegroom is to stand outside one's own awakened awareness, having spent the oil of attention on outer things and arrived without light. The door that shuts is not a punishment from above but the plain fact that a consciousness which never trimmed its lamp cannot recognize, and cannot be recognized by, the higher self it slept through.

Knowing here is union: the part of a person that stayed asleep has no shared life with the part that woke, so the 2 do not meet. When the mind lets its inner light run dry, the marriage of the lower and higher does not take place, and the self is left knocking on a threshold it never prepared to cross.

Door: the threshold of awakened consciousness that opens only to a mind that has kept its inner light burning

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Live Matthew 25:12 today

  1. Take five minutes with no input today, no podcast, no feed, no music. If sitting with yourself feels like meeting a stranger, that is the whole point of the five minutes.
  2. Ask someone close to you a question about them you have never asked, then stay quiet long enough to actually hear it. Being known works both directions and most of us are out of practice.
  3. When you react hard to something today, the email, the traffic, the tone in the group chat, stop for one breath and ask what just got touched. Reacting without ever looking is how a person stays unknown to themselves for years.

Which part of me have I been too busy to meet?

The same truth in other traditions

Upanishads

The self is known only by the one who has turned toward it. Look outward your whole life and you stay a stranger to what was closest the entire time.

Sufism · Rumi

You spend years knocking on doors and asking for directions to a house you live inside. The knocking cannot be answered because the asker and the home are the same.

Tao Te Ching 33

Knowing other people is cleverness. Knowing yourself is a different kind of sight, and no amount of the first ever turns into the second.

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