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Proverbs 12:18 · World English Bible

Proverbs 12:18 Meaning There Is One Who Speaks Rashly Like

There is one who speaks rashly like the piercing of a sword, but the tongue of the wise heals.

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What does Proverbs 12:18 mean?

Words shaped by fear cut like a blade, because attack is what the ego knows, and each sharp saying is guilt turned into a weapon to wound the one who seems to threaten. Yet the sword only ever pierces the mind that wields it, for the hand and the target are the same.

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Words shaped by fear cut like a blade, because attack is what the ego knows, and each sharp saying is guilt turned into a weapon to wound the one who seems to threaten. Yet the sword only ever pierces the mind that wields it, for the hand and the target are the same. Speech that flows from love does the opposite. It carries no charge, seeks no wound, and restores the one who hears it, because a mind at peace can only extend the peace it holds.

Every word is a small choice of teacher. One tongue divides and injures; the other joins and heals. A mind has only to decide which it would rather speak, and the wound or the healing follows.

Sword: the word turned into a weapon by fear, the sharp speech that pierces the very mind that wields it Tongue: the mind's power of speech, which wounds when guided by fear and heals when guided by love

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Live Proverbs 12:18 today

  1. Before you send the message you have already rewritten three times, read it once more and ask what it is actually for. If the honest answer is that you want them to feel bad, let it sit in drafts and go do something else.
  2. Find one person today, a coworker, your mum, the guy at the counter, and say the kind thing you usually leave in your head. Say it plainly, no joke attached to soften it.
  3. When someone snaps at you in a meeting or in traffic, let two seconds pass before you answer. Those two seconds are the whole difference between a cut and a calm reply.

What would I say right now if I had nothing to protect?

The same truth in other traditions

Tao Te Ching

The sage's words are soft and few, and water, the softest thing, wears away stone. Hardness in speech breaks the one who speaks it.

Buddhism · the Buddha

Right speech asks four things of a sentence before it leaves you: is it true, is it kind, is it needed, is it the moment. Harsh words burn the hand that throws them first.

Stoicism · Marcus Aurelius

The harm you feel from another is mostly the sharpness you added in your own mind, so a man who returns no sting has nothing left to defend.

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