Proverbs 15:31 · World English Bible
Proverbs 15:31 Meaning The Ear That Listens to Reproof Lives
The ear that listens to reproof lives, and will be at home among the wise.
What does Proverbs 15:31 mean?
There are two ways to hear a correction. One flinches, treating the word that would heal as an attack, and defends the very error that hurts.
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There are two ways to hear a correction. One flinches, treating the word that would heal as an attack, and defends the very error that hurts. The other stays still and lets the correction in, because a mind at peace has nothing to guard. What is being called reproof of life is only the quiet voice of love pointing to where fear was mistaken for truth.
A mind willing to be shown it was wrong is already choosing the gentler teacher. It does not lose by listening; it wakes. To dwell among the wise is simply to keep company with that willingness, until being corrected feels like being freed.
Ear: the inner willingness to receive, the part of the mind that either opens to the voice of love or shuts against it in self-defense
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Live Proverbs 15:31 today
- Reread a piece of feedback you got recently and did not like. Read it once with no rebuttal running underneath, just to see whether any part of it is simply true.
- Next time someone close to you says something critical, do not explain yourself for a full thirty seconds. Just listen, then ask one honest question about what they meant.
- In a meeting where you get corrected in front of other people, let your first words be thank you rather than a defense. The flush in your face will pass. What you learn stays.
What have I been defending that would cost me nothing to put down?
The same truth in other traditions
Tao Te Ching
The soft and yielding survive what the hard and rigid cannot. A mind that bends to what is true stays whole; one that stiffens against it breaks.
Stoicism · Epictetus
If someone tells you a true thing about your faults, be grateful rather than stung. You cannot correct what you refuse to hear named.
Pirkei Avot
Who is wise? The one who learns from everyone. Wisdom is not a possession to defend but an openness to be instructed.
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