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Proverbs 18:14 · World English Bible

Proverbs 18:14 Meaning A Man’s Spirit Will Sustain Him

A man’s spirit will sustain him in sickness, but a crushed spirit, who can bear?

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What does Proverbs 18:14 mean?

From the Christian Psychology reading below.

Proverbs 18:14 through 2 lenses

The same verse, read by 2 traditions.

Christian Psychology
Cybernetics

CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGY

Christian Psychology

The body's troubles are borne easily as long as the mind still knows what it is, for strength was never in the flesh but in the awareness that looks upon it. Every seeming affliction is survivable while the mind rests in truth. What cannot be carried is a mind that has turned against itself and accepted guilt as its identity, because then the very thing that would sustain it has become the wound.

This is why healing is always of the mind and never of the body. Mend the belief in separation and there is nothing left that cannot be borne, for the one who bears it has remembered it is not the fragile thing it feared.

Spirit: the mind's own awareness of what it is, the inner strength that carries every trouble as long as it has not made itself guilty.

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CYBERNETICS

Cybernetics

A person's inner picture can carry him through a sick body, a hard stretch, almost any outward blow. The spirit holds him up from underneath, and while it stands firm the weakness on the surface stays bearable. Bones ache and strength fails. Still the man keeps going.

The wound that reaches the spirit itself is the harder case. Once the self-image is the thing that is hurt, the very support meant to hold everything else has buckled. Nothing outside can prop it, because the prop is what broke. That is why a bruised self-image is the heaviest injury a person carries.

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Christian Psychology lens

Live Proverbs 18:14 today

If something hurts today, the back, the headache, the tiredness, see if you can feel it without the extra layer of "something is wrong with me." The ache is bearable, the story is what exhausts you.
When someone tells you about their hard week, resist fixing it and just stay with them. Your steadiness does more for them than your advice.
On a day when you are already low and you make a mistake, skip the part where you turn it into evidence about who you are. Handle the mistake, leave your worth out of it.

What am I actually carrying today, the trouble itself or what I keep telling myself about it?

The same truth in other traditions

Buddhism

Pain in the body is one arrow. The story you tell yourself about the pain is the second arrow, and that one you fire at yourself.

Stoicism · Epictetus

It is not what happens to you that wounds you, but what you believe about what happened. Illness can touch the body without touching the part that judges.