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Proverbs 27:11 · World English Bible

Proverbs 27:11 Meaning Be Wise

Be wise, my son, and bring joy to my heart, then I can answer my tormentor.

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What does Proverbs 27:11 mean?

Wisdom asked for here is not cleverness but the willingness to choose love while accusation is still in the air. When one mind steadies itself and refuses to take up the quarrel, the gladness spreads, for it shows that guilt has no hold and the reproach was empty all along.

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Wisdom asked for here is not cleverness but the willingness to choose love while accusation is still in the air. When one mind steadies itself and refuses to take up the quarrel, the gladness spreads, for it shows that guilt has no hold and the reproach was empty all along.

The answer to the one who accuses is never a sharper accusation returned. It is the quiet fact of a mind that will not attack, standing whole where the ego expected a wound. That calm is the reply, and it undoes the charge simply by being what fear said could not exist.

Son: the part of the mind still learning to choose, the aspect that grows into its own innocence. Him that reproacheth: the accusing voice of the ego, guilt turned outward and given a face to blame.

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Live Proverbs 27:11 today

  1. When a message lands that makes your chest tighten, put the phone down for ten minutes before you type anything. The reply you write after those ten minutes is the real one.
  2. If someone at home or at work pushes a blame at you tonight, try answering only the part that is actually a question, and let the accusation go unanswered. You do not owe a defense to every sentence.
  3. In a meeting where someone takes a shot at your work in front of others, keep your voice at the same volume it was a minute ago. Your steadiness will say more than the counterpoint would.

What would change in me if I did not need to win the argument to be fine?

The same truth in other traditions

Tao Te Ching 22

The one who does not contend is beyond defeat, because there is nothing in them for the quarrel to grip.

Buddhism · Dhammapada

Hatred never ends through hatred. It ends through its absence, and that absence is the only real answer.

Stoicism · Marcus Aurelius

The best reply to an insult is to stay the same person you were before it arrived. If you are not harmed, the harm did not happen.

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