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Proverbs 27:6 · World English Bible

Proverbs 27:6 Meaning The Wounds of a Friend Are Faithful

The wounds of a friend are faithful, although the kisses of an enemy are profuse.

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What does Proverbs 27:6 mean?

What feels like a wound is not always an attack, and what feels like tenderness is not always love. A friend here is the presence that tells a mind the truth even when it stings, valuing the other's awakening above its own comfort; such honesty, though it seems to cut, is faithful and heals, for only illusions are ever wounded.

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What feels like a wound is not always an attack, and what feels like tenderness is not always love. A friend here is the presence that tells a mind the truth even when it stings, valuing the other's awakening above its own comfort; such honesty, though it seems to cut, is faithful and heals, for only illusions are ever wounded.

The enemy's kiss is the flattery that keeps a mind asleep, agreeing with every defense and soothing every fear so nothing need change. It feels kind and works ruin. So a mind learns to weigh not how a word feels but where it leads, welcoming what wakes it.

Friend: the loving presence that tells the mind the truth even when it stings, valuing awakening over comfort. Enemy: the voice of flattery that soothes every fear and keeps the mind asleep in its dream.

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Live Proverbs 27:6 today

  1. Reread the feedback you dismissed as unfair and ask what would be true if even a fifth of it held. Sit with that part without arguing.
  2. Ask one person who knows you well what you are not seeing about yourself, then stay quiet long enough for them to actually answer.
  3. When someone takes your side in a conflict a bit too eagerly, ask them what the other person might have been right about.

Whose honesty have you been avoiding because it would ask something of you?

The same truth in other traditions

Buddhism · Dhammapada

Treat the one who shows you your faults as a guide pointing out buried treasure. Flattery leaves you where you are, and honesty moves you.

Stoicism · Marcus Aurelius

He wanted correction more than agreement, saying he would gladly change if anyone showed him he was wrong. Being soothed is not the same as being helped.

Tao Te Ching 81

True words are not pretty, and pretty words are not true. Judge a word by where it takes you, not by how it feels going down.

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