Recognition can come before it is shown. The healed mind knows its own thoughts even when they do not yet know themselves, and it may hold back its welcome for a while, not from unforgiveness but because the ones who come are not yet ready to be met in the open. The rough manner is a veil, not a change of heart, and behind it the knowing is already complete.
What looks like harshness is patience wearing a stern face. A mind that has forgiven waits for the frightened thoughts to be prepared, drawing them slowly toward the moment when the veil can drop. They come hungry, seeking sustenance from the very place they wronged, and the teacher who already knows them is only making them ready to remember.
Joseph: the healed mind that already knows its own thoughts and waits for them to be ready
Joseph's brethren: the frightened thoughts that come seeking help without yet knowing whom they face
The land of Canaan: the place of lack the mind departs to seek nourishment it cannot find there
Food: the true sustenance the thoughts come seeking, found only in the mind that has forgiven them