Sīlabbata-parāmāsa: Grasping at rites and rules
This fetter takes observance itself to be the thing that purifies. Set against it, worship pure and undefiled before the Father gets weighed by whose door you knocked on and what you carried there. A man can keep every ceremony exactly and still step around the orphan on his way home, and the ceremonies leave him precisely where they found him.
Karuṇā: Compassion
Compassion is the heart trembling at another's pain and moving toward it. The fatherless and the widow have lost the one who stood between them and hunger, so their trouble sits at the edge of everyone's day, easy to see and easy to pass. Compassion turns a person around at that gate and takes them inside, where affliction stops being a general fact and becomes a cold room and an empty jar.
Atthacariyā: Acting for another's welfare
One of the four ways of binding people together, this is care that arrives. Visiting means feet on the road, a basket in the hand, a look at the leaking roof, a question about the debt. Sympathy that stays home leaves the widow exactly where she was; a knock at her door does not.
Indriyasaṃvara: Guarding the sense doors
Restraint at the eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, and mind. The world reaches you first through what you look at and what you listen to, so keeping oneself unstained is work done at the doorway, in the moment a sight lands and wanting starts to gather. A gatekeeper who watches who comes in protects the house better than a higher wall does.
Mala: Stain
A stain here is the mark left on conduct by greed, anger, and stinginess. Unstained by the world does not mean untouched by the dust of the road; the mark forms inside, where a grudging hand or a hard word settles and hardens. Going to her house and staying clean turn out to be one work, since the greed and contempt that stain a person are the same things that keep a person home.