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Proverbs 19:25 · World English Bible

Proverbs 19:25 Meaning Flog a Scoffer

Flog a scoffer, and the simple will learn prudence; rebuke one who has understanding, and he will gain knowledge.

What does Proverbs 19:25 mean?

Three conditions of one mind are set side by side, and each learns by the light it is willing to receive. The scorner, hardened in judgment, changes only under the blow of consequence, and even then teaches others by his fall rather than by any shift within.

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Three conditions of one mind are set side by side, and each learns by the light it is willing to receive. The scorner, hardened in judgment, changes only under the blow of consequence, and even then teaches others by his fall rather than by any shift within. The mind still innocent and untried grows cautious watching him, learning fear before it learns love.

But the mind that already welcomes correction needs no blow at all. A gentle word is enough, because it is looking for truth rather than defending against it. Willingness, not punishment, is what lets understanding deepen, and the readier the mind, the smaller the lesson it requires.

Scorner: the mind so fixed in judgment that only hard consequence reaches it. Simple: the untried mind, still open, that learns caution by watching another fall.

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Live Proverbs 19:25 today

  1. Reread one piece of feedback you dismissed, from a review, a text, a comment. Read it once as if it were true and see what you can use.
  2. When someone corrects you today, even clumsily, say thank you before you say anything else. Let the sentence land fully before you decide what to do with it.
  3. In a meeting where you feel the pull to defend your work, ask a question instead: what would you change? You lose nothing you were not already losing.

How small a hint would be enough for me, if I were not busy defending?

The same truth in other traditions

Confucius · Analects

Tell a wise person their fault and they thank you. Tell a fixed person and they explain why you are wrong. The same words land in two different worlds.

Stoicism · Epictetus

If someone shows you that you are mistaken, change gladly. It is not the correction that harms you, but the clinging to the error.

Zen

The teacher's lightest touch is enough for the student who came to learn. For the one who came to be confirmed, no blow is ever sufficient.

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