Proverbs 5:17 · World English Bible
Proverbs 5:17 Meaning Let Them Be for Yourself Alone
Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.
What does Proverbs 5:17 mean?
When love seems to belong to a stranger, to be granted or withheld by another, the mind hands away the one thing it can never lose and makes itself a beggar at a door. What is genuinely one's own is the inner presence of love, and this cannot be divided or claimed by any other, for it was given by God and not by the world.
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When love seems to belong to a stranger, to be granted or withheld by another, the mind hands away the one thing it can never lose and makes itself a beggar at a door. What is genuinely one's own is the inner presence of love, and this cannot be divided or claimed by any other, for it was given by God and not by the world.
To keep the waters as one's own is to stop crediting the outside world with a peace that only rises from within. A mind that owns its source stops bargaining for it.
Strangers: the outside figures and forces the mind wrongly credits with its peace, the false owners to whom it hands away what was always its own
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Live Proverbs 5:17 today
- When you catch yourself refreshing a screen to see if someone replied, put the phone face down for a minute and ask what you were hoping that message would give you. Then give yourself that, quietly, without waiting for it.
- Spend time with one person today without steering them toward approving of you. No fishing for a compliment, no checking their face for a verdict, just being with them while your own calm stays yours.
- In a meeting or a tense group chat where someone is short with you, let their tone belong to them. You can answer the words and leave the mood where it came from.
What have I been asking someone else to hand me today that was already mine?
The same truth in other traditions
Tao Te Ching 33
The one who looks outward for worth stays restless, because nothing out there can be held. Knowing your own ground is a wealth no one hands you and no one can take back.
Stoicism · Epictetus
Some things are ours and some are not. Reputation, affection, the moods of other people are not ours, and the moment we stake our peace on them we have made ourselves a servant to whoever holds them.
Sufism · Rumi
You keep knocking at doors, asking to be let in, while the thing you want is already inside the house you are standing in. The beggar at the gate was always the owner.
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